New Horizons for KindNest in 2024

ANNOUNCEMENT:  New Horizons for KindNest in 2024 

Embracing Change and New Beginnings

Introduction: 

David Bowie once said, "Discipline doesn't mean that you have breakfast at eight o'clock in the morning and you're out of the house by half past eight. Discipline is if you conceive something, decide whether or not it's worth following through, and if it is… you follow it through to its logical conclusion, to the best of your ability. That's discipline." You may have heard me reference this quote before. It’s because these words reflect what I set out to do through KindNest – follow the vision I conceived, of providing support to women and couples, to its logical conclusion. 

As such, KindNest, as a place of solace, support and empowerment for women and couples, has embodied this philosophy throughout its existence thus far. As I look back on the incredible journey that has unfolded in what will soon be 5 years since we opened doors, I recognize that sometimes, following an idea through to its logical conclusion leads to unexpected and transformative new beginnings. Such a new beginning is on the horizon for KindNest come January of 2024.

The Vision Unfolds: 

KindNest was born from a deep desire to provide solace and support to those who have experienced the profound grief of pregnancy loss. It began with my personal experience over a decade ago now, with the realization of how common pregnancy loss is and a need for more support, and quickly expanded in subsequent years to encompass holistic support for various stages of life, from fertility and pregnancy to parenting.

At its inception, I envisioned my role as merely the person bringing together the resources and expertise of others, as the one running the business. However, life had other plans. My path lead me to become a life coach and energetic healer, and I soon discovered that this one-on-one work would be the most impactful and rewarding aspects of my role as Founder, both financially as it relates to keeping the doors open and lights on, as well as emotionally and energetically, by influencing the balance of peace and suffering within individuals.

Five Years in the Making: 

2024 will mark five years since I embarked on this journey of having a brick-and-mortar location, constantly seeking the best way to work with clients individually while also running a community space. The global pandemic provided a unique opportunity to learn that the vast majority of individual clients prefer to work together remotely, leading to a pivotal realization I’m now embracing: I no longer require all the physical space I initially envisioned.

A Bittersweet Farewell: 

The time has come to acknowledge that KindNest, as a brick-and-mortar community space, has reached its logical conclusion. This decision has not been easy, and my emotions have run high. Still, I am confident it's the right choice. I grapple with feelings of failure alongside a sense of letting down those who believed and invested in the original vision of KindNest, but it doesn't change the fact that despite my best efforts, under my direction the community space has not flourished in the way I once envisioned.

The Good News: 

There is light at the end of this tunnel. KindNest is not going away; instead, it is evolving. As of January 2024, the community space at 1 Rosell Drive will thrive under the capable hands of Molly Conway of The Body WorkShop Physical Therapy, who has called KindNest home for the last two years. This change will allow me to channel my attention, energy, and resources toward growing KindNest as the coaching and energetic healing business that has had a profound impact on people's lives over the last five years.

A Look Back: 

As we bid farewell to this chapter, it’s important to acknowledge the achievements that have graced KindNest. The number of teachers who facilitated classes and workshops (numbering 32), practitioners who called KindNest home to their business (9), and clients who have been a part of this community (2,500+ and still counting) is a testament to the difference we have made. We have created a welcoming physical space, and nurtured a community that will continue to evolve and grow in its next iteration.

Gratitude: 

I would like to express my heartfelt gratitude to my family, clients, the community, and supporters who believed in this dream, as well as to The Body WorkShop for enabling the physical space to live on in a new way. While mixed emotions may linger, it's clear that it's time for a big change, making room for the next phase where KindNest can touch more lives more deeply.

What’s Next:

KindNest's evolution into a virtual realm brings forth exciting opportunities. I am thrilled to announce that I will continue offering my Inner Alignment Coaching program, which has touched the lives of many, empowering them to harness the innate power of their minds and bodies. This program is designed to help individuals make peace with their past and achieve their most elusive goals.

Here's a glimpse of what participants can expect from the Inner Alignment Coaching program:

• Virtual Convenience: The entire program is accessible online, ensuring that participants can embark on this transformative journey from the comfort of their own space, anywhere across the country or around the world.

• Weekly One-on-One Coaching: Participants have the opportunity for live one-on-one coaching sessions via Zoom, providing personalized guidance and support.

• Weekly Reiki Sessions: Reiki is a powerful healing technique that helps realign energy and promote emotional well-being. The program includes weekly reiki sessions to enhance participants’ inner balance.

• Comprehensive Curriculum: Participants gain access to a curriculum of recorded video lessons, offering valuable insights, education and guidance on their path to self-discovery and personal growth.

• Guided Meditations and Practices: A library of guided meditations, practices, and guides is at participants’ disposal, to support a sustainable journey of self-empowerment.

• Ongoing Support: Participants aren’t on this journey alone. I provide ongoing support via text to ensure that they feel guided and empowered throughout the experience.

The most foundational essentials of the program are also available via abbreviated online courses participants take at their own pace. This flexibility allows participants to tailor their experience to fit their unique schedule and needs.

For more in-depth information about the Inner Alignment Coaching program and to explore additional resources, visit our website at https://kind-nest.com.

You can stay connected with KindNest through our social media channels. Follow us on Instagram, Facebook and Pinterest @kindnestempowers to access regular updates, inspiration, and a sense of community.

If you're curious about how these programs may help you harness the power of your mind and body to heal the past and create a brighter future, I invite you to schedule a free 30-minute Discovery Call. During this call, we can chat about your goals and the potential for transformation that lies ahead. Your journey towards healing, empowerment and achievement of your most elusive goals starts here.

As KindNest continues to evolve and adapt, our commitment to supporting your growth and well-being remains steadfast. The future holds exciting opportunities, and I look forward to embarking on this next chapter with you.

Conclusion: 

In times of change and transformation, I find it helpful to remember that every ending is merely the beginning of something new. As we close the chapter of KindNest as a physical space at the conclusion of 2023, we open the doors to new possibilities. This transition is not the end, but a new and promising beginning, and I look forward to the journey ahead with hope, determination, and the discipline to follow this evolving vision to its logical conclusion.

Becoming My Own Student

I’m Going on an 8-Week Journey with My Own Inner Alignment Program…Want to Come Along?

(PLUS: An Exclusive Offer for You!)

Introduction

In a world filled with endless distractions and the hustle and bustle of daily life, it's easy to lose sight of ourselves and the path we want to tread. That's why I've decided to embark on a journey of participating in MY OWN Inner Alignment Program for the next 8 weeks, starting next week! I'm eager to share with you the details of this experience and will be including my insights, challenges, and breakthroughs as I become the participant in each facet of my own program.

Week 1: Calming the Nervous System - The Foundation

The first week of my journey focuses on the crucial foundation of inner alignment: calming the nervous system. In today's fast-paced world, it's all too easy to become overwhelmed, stressed, and disconnected from ourselves, and we coaches and healers are no exception! This week, I'll dive deep into Week 1 of my video curriculum and take actionable steps to find calm and balance within, so I can free up energy to use in subsequent weeks. I'll be sharing my experiences on my social media channels, so you can join me in grounding in.

Week 2: Gaining Clarity on Desires and Internal Motivators

In Week 2, I'll explore the concept of regaining clarity on what I desire most and uncovering the internal motivators that drive my most important external goals. This is where the true power of inner alignment begins to shine. By understanding my desires and motivations in this light, I can set meaningful heart-based goals as I head into 2024. I can begin to move my energy with purpose, by working to foster the internal state I desire, so I can naturally manifest externally. I'll be sharing my insights, challenges, and breakthroughs during this week, inviting you to reflect on your own desires and motivations.

Week 3: Clearing Energetic Interference and The Path to Alignment

Week 3 marks a crucial juncture. From this point forward, it’ll be time to address the energetic interference that stands in the way of my desires. I'll explore various practices from Weeks 3 through 8, designed to clear these blockages, allowing me to realign with my aspirations. Expect to hear about my experiences with these practices as I utilize them to clear the energetic interference.

Why Inner Alignment Matters

Inner alignment is not just a trendy concept but essential to embodying an intentional life. When we actively clear the interference of past experiences and align with what we want, we can handle whatever life throws at us and thrive. It’s all part of the journey and feels more like an interesting scavenger hunt as opposed to an endless maze! It's the key to unlocking our potential — closing old wounds from the past and aligning with the feelings we want most to experience — in order to achieve our dreams. By sharing my journey, I’d love to inspire you to take the next step towards your own heart’s desires as well.

Conclusion

As I prepare to start my 8-week program, I'm eager to delve into the three essential components necessary for embodying my inner alignment: calming my nervous system, gaining clarity on my desires and motivations, and clearing my energetic interference. By participating in this program, I the coach will again become the student, and I aim to reemerge as a more fully aligned, authentic, and fulfilled version of myself, one who’s ready have more impact on the balance of peace and suffering in the world in 2024.

Stay tuned for my updates and reflections. You can join me on social media as I share candidly about my experience, as we explore the transformative power of inner alignment together.

An Exclusive Offer for YOU

If you’re reading this and thinking “hmm…I’d love to do something like that too…”, below I’ve included an exclusive opportunity to jumpstart your own inner alignment.

As you know if you’ve been following me, my Inner Alignment program is typically an 8-week intensive where I provide a roadmap to help you achieve your most elusive goals by taking simple steps in minutes/day. I show you how your energy is already shaping your reality and guide you through simple techniques to harness this power effectively. 

Now, for a limited time, you too can take action today to set yourself up for 2024, as I am offering exclusive access to a new, unique way of accessing my support (just for blog readers)! 

Understanding the Inner Alignment Process

Manifestation, in its essence, is about intentionally creating what we want in life. Whether it's healing emotional wounds, manifesting tangible desires like a baby, a fulfilling relationship, or career success, it all becomes achievable when we understand the "how." My Inner Alignment program is designed to make this process accessible and actionable, through 3 distinct steps:

1. Calming your nervous system

2. Clarity on internal motivator(s) for your external goal(s)

3. Clearing energetic interference

My program includes a step-by-step roadmap to implement all 3 over the course of 8 weeks. 

BUT right now, for a limited time, I am offering the opportunity for you to hone in on THE one area that’s the biggest challenge for you, in a Jumpstart session.

Here's a breakdown of the options:

1. nervous system Regulation jumpstart

The first step in the Inner Alignment journey is to calm your nervous system. Without a calm nervous system, all your efforts in other areas will be less effective. In a Nervous System Regulation Jumpstart session (60-minute virtual session, $150), I provide strategies tailored to your unique energetics and circumstances. The techniques you learn in this session will help you respond rather than react, think clearly, and feel better. Pre-work is required to make the most of this session.

2. magnetizing your desires jumpstart

Maybe your nervous system is in check but you could use help on the second step, connecting with your internal motivator for your external desires. Manifestation is not just about external goals; what unlocks your ability to manifest is identifying the core desires and feelings that drive those goals. For instance, if your goal is to heal from grief, you need to envision what it would look and feel like once that grief is integrated into the story of your life. This is where you need to shift your focus. In my Magnetizing Your Desires Jumpstart session (60-minute virtual session, $150), I’ll guide you through this process by refining your Heart's Desire(s) and uncovering your internal motivator(s). I’ll help you identify the desired feelings and scenarios to practice. Homework assignments are designed to solidify these concepts.

3. making peace jumpstart

Perhaps you know exactly what you want and why, but you’re stumped in getting there, feeling like you’ve already tried everything. This is what I see most! The vast majority of us minimize the impact of our past experiences, which create interference in our ability to align our energy effectively with what we want. Unprocessed energy stored in the body will continue to affect us until we process and release it. In my Making Peace Jumpstart session (60-minute virtual session, $150), we’ll explore how energy works and what creates interference for YOU. We’ll delve into one of your biggest barriers or triggers, and through simple energetic practices I’ll help you release unprocessed energy from the past. Homework assignments focus on continuing the practices introduced and increasing awareness of limiting beliefs to make sustainable change.

Summary

Manifestation doesn't have to be a daunting or mystifying process. It's about understanding your inner energy and aligning it with your goals and desires. Inner Alignment offers a structured approach to help you achieve the life you want. By calming your nervous system, uncovering your internal motivators, and clearing interference from the past, you'll be well on your way to manifesting your dreams.

I’m offering exclusive access to these Jumpstart sessions to Aligned + Well Blog readers, for a limited time. Whether you're stressed, struggling to manifest your desires, or haunted by the past, Inner Alignment can provide the guidance and tools you need to create the life you've always wanted. 

You can book now for 2024 (we all know it’ll be here before we know it!) and set yourself up so it’s the year you see your dreams to reality. HINT: Use your flexible spending account debit card for payment when you book, so you can use up those FSA dollars before they disappear!

Not sure which option is right for you? Book a free chat with me and I’ll help you determine the best path forward.

Finding Courage to Stay Open When Bad Things Happen

Balancing the Risks of Control with the Rewards of Freedom

Introduction

Life is unpredictable, and despite our best efforts, bad things can and do happen. This week I found myself grappling with a vast array of emotions following the abduction and subsequent safe return of a young girl in our close-knit community. Whether it’s the possibility of a school shooting, abduction, or another unspeakable tragedy, our society and media are rife these days with worst-case scenarios for us to ponder. 

While my immediate mama-bear reaction may be to put my kids in a bubble to keep them safe forever, I know that’s not the answer, nor possible. Statistically speaking, the likelihood of these horrific occurrences is so small, unlike the impact of a hyper-controlled life ruled by fear, the implications of which are vast. I’ve been listening inwardly to understand my own threshold of control vs. freedom, trying to come to terms with how to find balance.

In this blog post, we’ll explore considerations for consciously choosing to stay open when bad things happen, making peace with the inevitable uncertainties of life, and striking a balance between freedom and control. Whether you're a parent worrying about your child's safety, an individual navigating the twists and turns of life, or both, one thing is certain: you can't protect yourself or your loved ones from every possible danger. Risk is an inherent part of being human, and it's how we make peace within ourselves with these risks that truly matters. 

The Perils of Constricting Control and Inherent Risk

Considerations:

1. Accepting the Inherent Risk of Being Human

Perhaps it’s obvious – the first step towards staying open when bad things happen is acknowledging and accepting that risk is an inherent part of being human. We cannot protect ourselves or our loved ones from every possible danger. Life is full of uncertainties, and trying to control every aspect of it is not only impossible but can also lead to pervasive anxiety and stress. 

2. Understanding Your Comfort Threshold

Getting to know your own risk comfort threshold is important. Each of us has a different level of tolerance for risk and uncertainty. Some people are naturally more cautious, while others are more adventurous. Don't try to conform to someone else's idea of what is safe or acceptable; instead, honor your own instincts and boundaries. Are you able to embrace the potential downside of a risk for the potential upside of the reward? It may help to ask yourself honestly – if the worst case scenario were to occur, could I forgive myself knowing I did the best I could to avoid it, that I chose to embrace living daily life openly and without fear?

3. Planning for the Worst, Hoping for the Best

Since it’s impossible to shield ourselves completely from every danger, it's wise to plan for and discuss worst-case scenarios, at an age-appropriate level of detail. Discuss contingency plans so you feel you’ve done your best. These discussions can give us a sense of control and security. By preparing for these situations, you can feel like you've done the best you can to protect yourself and your loved ones.

4. Avoiding Unnecessary Exposure to Risk

While it's crucial to embrace the unpredictability of life, it's also important to act mindfully to avoid unnecessary exposure to risk. Make informed decisions and take precautions when necessary. For instance, you might advise your child to remain close to you in public or make it a rule that they travel in groups. This approach allows you to strike a mindful balance between embracing the adventure of being out and about while taking the necessary steps to protect yourself or your family from potential harm. 

5. The Limits of Constricting Control

Constricting control, driven by fear, limits the possibilities of growth, joy, and adventure that humans are here to experience. When we tightly grip the reins of our lives or the lives of those around us, we inadvertently stifle the very essence of what it means to be alive. We become trapped in a narrow corridor of existence, missing out on the vast expanse of opportunities that life presents.

EMBRACING FREEDOM AND OPENNESS

CONSIDERATIONS

1. Embracing the Freedom of Growth

True growth often occurs beyond the boundaries of our comfort zones. It's in those uncharted territories of life where we discover our strengths, learn invaluable lessons, and experience moments of profound joy and adventure. By embracing freedom over constricting control, we open ourselves up to a world of possibilities.

2. The Joy of Unpredictability

Life's unpredictability is often what makes it so beautiful. Think about the moments in your life that have brought the most joy and fulfillment. Chances are, many were unexpected, spontaneous, and beyond your control. By relinquishing excessive control and allowing room for spontaneity, you invite more of these joyful moments into life. 

3. Adventure as a Path to Self-Discovery

Adventure is not just about exploring far-off places; it's also about exploring the depths of your own being. When you release the grip of control, you invite adventure into your life in various forms. Adventure fosters personal growth, resilience, and a deeper connection to the world around you. This is traded when control and fear take hold.

4. The Essence of Being Human

As humans, we are inherently curious beings. We are here to experience the richness of life in all its facets, from the mundane to the extraordinary. Constricting control may offer a false sense of security, but it robs us of the authentic human experience—an experience that is meant to be filled with exploration, connection, growth, and the unbridled joy of embracing the unknown.

5. Energetic Alignment

Acknowledging the role of energetic alignment in our lives is crucial. Everything happens energetically before it happens physically. A mind focused on control often begets fear-inducing experiences, while a mind focused on love and openness begets love-inspiring ones. Consciously choosing a perspective of openness and love can lead to a more positive and open-minded life, enabling you to openly embrace the spectrum of experiences available in the world.

A Note on Silver Linings

One of the most profound aspects of dealing with adversity and difficult situations is the possibility of silver linings, even in the most challenging circumstances. When we face distressing events, it's natural to want to understand the "why," but sometimes, that answer may never come. However, we can choose to focus on the possibility of positive outcomes and lessons that may emerge from such experiences:

1. Building Community: Tragic events often bring communities together in a remarkable way. People rally to support each other, offer help, and show solidarity. The sense of unity and collective strength that arises from adversity can be a powerful force for good.

2. Preventing Future Tragedies: The experience of one ordeal may serve as a deterrent to potential predators lurking in the wings. When they see the community's determination to protect its members and the consequences faced by those who commit such crimes, it may make them think twice before acting on their harmful intentions.

3. Rediscovering Joy: In the midst of despair, the return of a missing person, safe and sound, can be a cause for immense joy and celebration. It reminds us that, even in the darkest moments, there is room for hope, happiness, community and positive surprises.

4. Learning for the Future: Investigations into incidents with happy endings can provide invaluable insights for law enforcement and organizations working to prevent abductions, find missing children or otherwise. Analyzing the details of how these crimes are carried out can lead to improved strategies and better outcomes for future or open cases.

Conclusion

Staying open when bad things happen is a delicate dance between freedom and control, fear and love. It requires understanding your comfort threshold, planning for the worst while remaining focused on the best, and making a conscious choice to align with openness and possibility for the value of what it brings to life. 

While we can't control every outcome and we may never fully understand the reasons behind tragic events, we can choose how to respond and how life experience shapes us. We can focus on the best actions we can take to remain safe without excessive control, so we may embrace the full spectrum of human emotions, from the depths of despair to the thrill of adventure and the deep well of joy that can spring from living with an open heart. Ultimately, by choosing freedom and love over fear and control, we not only honor the essence of being human but also unlock the boundless potential for growth, joy, and adventure that this unique journey offers.

Liberating Yourself from Past Pain: The Power of Processing Old Energy

Introduction

Life can be challenging, and we all carry emotional baggage from our past experiences. Whether it's from a difficult relationship, past traumas, or even a toxic family dynamic, these emotional wounds can linger and affect our well-being and ability to achieve our goals. From an inner alignment perspective, the answer lies in a transformative process that involves understanding and processing old energy stored in your body. In this article, we'll explore the concept of processing old energy and how it can liberate you from the weight of past pain, allowing you to respond rather than react to life's challenges.

Understanding Old Energy

Old energy refers to the emotional residue that accumulates within us over time due to painful or traumatic experiences. These emotions can include anger, sadness, resentment, and fear. Much like a storage system in our bodies and minds, this old energy can shape our reactions to similar situations, often without us even realizing it. This keeps us feeling stuck, like we are at the mercy of the external circumstances, needing them to change in order to feel better. In fact, the opposite is true – by processing the old energy you embrace your innate ability to heal, flow with the ups and downs of life, and thrive.

The Process of Letting Go

• Acknowledgment and Validation: The first step in processing old energy is acknowledging the emotions tied to past experiences. You don’t need to remember the exact circumstances or details, it’s enough to recognize “this feels old” and just sit with it in the moment. It's helpful to validate your own feelings and understand that it's entirely normal to be affected by past pain.

• Allowing the Feelings: To let go of the old energy, it needs to be felt and honored so it can be processed rather than repressed. The beautiful thing is that this can take place any time, no matter how old the wounds are. Sometimes sitting and allowing the feelings is enough. Since it’s important for the mind to not to get wrapped up in analysis, judgment or the old story though, specific strategies and steps may need to be taken to enable it to be fully processed.

• Seeking Support and Guidance: Healing often requires support from trusted individuals or professionals, such as therapists, coaches or healers. They can provide you with the tools and guidance needed to navigate your emotions and further the healing process. (Tip: Strategies and techniques for releasing old energy are taught in my Inner Alignment Coaching program.)

The Transformation

As you work on processing old energy, you'll begin to notice significant transformations in your life:

• Freedom from Triggers: Processing old energy allows you to detach from past triggers. Similar circumstances and people who once provoked intense reactions in you will no longer have the same power over your emotions. It’s not that you’ll forget what happened in the past; it simply won't have the power over you it does now, because those experiences will be integrated into the story of your life, rather than stopping you in your tracks each time they are recalled or reoccur.

• Increased Emotional Resilience: You'll develop emotional resilience, enabling you to respond thoughtfully and intentionally rather than react impulsively to challenging situations. This newfound strength empowers you to make choices that serve your well-being and goals.

• Embracing Positive Change: With the burden of old energy lifted, you'll experience positive change in your life and renewed capacity to achieve your dreams. You can set healthier boundaries, cultivate more fulfilling relationships, and pursue your goals with confidence.

• Self-Compassion: Be kind to yourself during this journey. Healing is not a linear path, and it's okay to have “setbacks”. Those I’ve guided to process old wounds through Inner Alignment Coaching often ask me “what if I go back to my old ways now that I’ve completed the program??” To this my answer is always the same – it would be impossible for you to go back without trying really hard! Once the old energy is processed, it’s no longer there to cause you to react in old ways. All that’s required to move forward is staying connected with yourself, so you can choose what serves you as you navigate life. Practicing self-compassion can help you stay on track and maintain a mindset that’s aligned with the future you desire.

Conclusion

Processing old energy is a transformative journey that empowers you to break free from the shackles of past pain. It allows you to respond rather than react to life's challenges, ultimately leading to a more fulfilling and liberated existence. Remember, healing takes time and patience, but the rewards are immeasurable. By embarking on this journey, you can take control of your emotional well-being and create a brighter, more empowered future.